HEY!! He had his knee cap blown off in order to get to the finals and he played the finals and we wan. I had to watch the gruesome sight of his leg bending the way ostrages walk. Let me tell ya, it took half an hour to get him from the field to the car with out letting that leg twist the way it shouldn’t. I was there holding that knee despite his pain and screams. Sadly enough it was me doing the fainting and not Stephan!! Jajaja
We all shed blood for that champion ship and I, being at the time a narcissist, I lost my nose in the last game. And when I say lost my nose, I mean it; I required serious plastic surgery to get it back. As a matter of fact I don’t remember any one from that team not having shed serious blood to win that championship. May not of being the world championship but we sure went through broken necks, legs, arms, collar bones, noses, contusions and the works to win it.
I remember the French school brought back their best players from abroad (France) and from the rugby league to defeat us in the final bout. At the end we held that cup, yes a cup filled with blood!! But I recon that’s what it takes to win, it always has…. Every single one of the players went at least ones to the hospital with serious injuries in order to win that cup and, --I am sorry Stephan but have to set the record straight-- the true be told, you where an exceptional captain, player and vital member responsible for wining the cup, broken bones and all!!!!!!!!! Yes that cup also helped me get rid of my narcissist tendencies at the time jajaja …….
I have gone around the world, followed women to Canada , France Argentina and Denmark , finally learned that one should not follow women, one stays put… but too late for that. When I was younger I heard a man say once “women come and go but friends are forever” I clearly recall thinking “what an idiot” dam it!!! Now I think that, may be he was just thrusting a Mayan curse on me and I thought he was sharing some stupid wisdom of his own.
But don’t regret it. Have loved and joyed each relation immensely, everything has its expiration date, that’s all. Learn to get over it fast and be ready for the next, this being now my personal stupid wisdom!! . Thanks to following women around the world I learned languages as well as got to know great cultures. Never married, no children.
That tells you I am somewhat smart for a man of such volatile nature…May be I am just plain incapable of getting a women pregnant, but wont ever check that jajaja But I owe it more to!! “Know thy self” – some genius said that, I just repeat it a lot!!! And even thought my relations have lasted up to 4 years filled with those crazy words “ love and passion “ and with those ridiculous but necessary concept “ respect and trust” I knew I was not the kind that’s marries nor lasts more than 5 years in a relationship So, made sure never to have children. jajaja “Know thy self” – some genius said that, I just repeat it a lot!!! Jajajaja Now they are all very good friends of mine. Hummm ---Women come and go, friends are for ever--- jajaja who would say that a stupid man would leave such phrase printed in my brain for over 24 years…. Jajaja
I wrote a book, a terror/thriller /suspense novel. But the company that edited my book is screwi….. (Can I write words like that on this blog?) me. So I stopped all relations with them and just read that you! Nili! May be able to help me publish or promote my book. My web cite (don’t try to buy it not ready yet) http://www.axbalzavala.com/ so I will try to enter your cite right now and contact you. The book is a terror/adventure/suspense novel, where 4 of my best friends are a part of it. Toby and John Redshaw (Edronites), Stephan and Jerome Lacor (also edronites) I changed their names in the book so as not to get sued by them. It is a terror book and never asked their permission to torture and kill them in the novel... I changed the name of the school too, (Edron) again I don’t want to get sued.
So the past is all about great moments and the present to plan for more of them .It is good to have this Blog it brought me back to some of the best moments of my life.
I was going to stop here but Andrew Gilchrist asked me to write about my self. Not much interesting to say but here it goes. I graduated in Business administrator, love biology thinking on studying Biochemistry now. Played soccer in all the countries and US States I have lived at. I was lucky to be a part of very good teams and raised wining cups in all the teams I played for. Memphis State University , USIU University ( California ), triple A teams in Texas , San Diego , Paris ( France ) Copenhagen ( Denmark ), back in Mexico had a moment of loosing faith in my self but couldn’t just adjust to the way soccer is played here. So lost faith in me and it probably was me loosing ability, so decided to concentrate in another sport called Brazilian Jiujitsu.
Now I have 10 years in it. Have trained with Ralph Gracie in San Francisco for 4 years and Jackson Correia for 6 in Mexico . I concentrated more in the Vale tudo sector of Jiujitsu but any how, its arrogant to rate one self so let me say I have 10 years and have trained harder than professionals. If all goes right I will be off to Brazil for 3 month training at Florianopolis to continue learning at a very prestigious Brazilian Jiujitsu academy there.
Wrote 3 Books. Two are Suspense/thrillers, one is a Novel based on my grandparent’s parent’s immigration into Mexico . I based the novel on them because it offers all the bases for a good tragedy. My Grandfather’s grandfather was Lebanese who married a Jewish woman. As a result of their marriage they where persecuted by his parents and as a result of my grandfathers’ birth my grandfather’s grandfather attempted to kill them all, so the escaped to Mexico. When my grandfather was 13, his father was contacted by a brother of his to return to Lebanon . According to the story, he was being forgiven. And being a part of a very very wealthy and powerful family, they wanted him to receive part of the inheritance his recently dead Father had left him. So he went back to Lebanon but was never heard from him again. It was suspected he was actually executed by his own father. So as you can see it has the grounds for a more serious novel, which I have finished and only needs to be corrected before I publish it. It is in Spanish, my mother tongue.
No Girlfriends at the moment, nor care much to look for any. I guess my coming trip to Brazil has subconsciously placed me on a stand by state. I don’t know, may be I am turning gay jaja just kidding. May be I have had far too many relationships and need a break from seriousness…..
Dam it looking back I don’t have much of a life’s curriculum here!! %@&$#$, well hope that God isn’t opening doors on accomplishments jajaj but hey! if he is doing it based on good moments !! I have it made jajaja
O yea forgot, work uhummm like I said hope God isn’t opening doors on accomplishments!! Worked for IT companies, always good money there. A couple in the US , one in Denmark . Hate to work for others!! so no more. Don’t like to teach Jiujitsu nor Soccer to make a living out of it. I can’t explain it, it’s like an honorable thing or something, and I have taught many people but never charged. Some of my students are very big in Jiujitsu now but never charged them a cent. Some are teachers them selves. So I recon I was sort of a good teacher. Not a way of living for me though, more out of weirdness in concepts than anything else.
So , wow I am not used to write about my self , may be scared to see what I write about my past jajaja OK now I am more eager to read about others so Best to all in your objectives good to hear from some of the good old friends…..
Axbal (Ash)
